Ok this really can frustrate me at times. I get that texting is not always the best form of communication especially when it comes to expressing something or having a conversation in general. I'm very good with getting back to someone quickly. I feel like this is a guy thing though and I dont' know why you guys do it.
I've had a few instances with a handful of guys where I"d text them something and they might not get back to me right away maybe in a few hours or next day or so. Fine you're busy or whatever I don't say nothing about it just wait for answer. But when the guy texts, and I guess the girl doesn't respond right away they'll send another text within the next hour or call or just send a question mark like as if something is wrong.
This one guy I've been talking with I always respond to him. I had texted him on a thurs asking how he was doing and told him to give me a call over the weekend. I heard nothing from him and I text him on Saturday and said I hope your doing okay with the snow (it was snowing bad that night) and to stay warm. He doesn't' get back to me until Sunday. I had already assumed he wasnt' even going to contact me. but he called me 2x in 30n min then texted me saying Hey after I missed his first phone call and then sends me a question mark. Like okay I was busy but I got back to him nonetheless. But why are sending me a ? as if rushing me or making it seem like I was ignoring him. I haven't heard from him all weekend and you just getting back to me on Sunday early evening. Why do you guys do this?
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Good question. I am notoriously bad at returning texts...
But it is kind of annoying (actually I find it insulting) when guys/anyone sends "?" or repeated messages within 10 minutes. I can understand a repeated message maybe, but the "?" is just a demand on my time.
If I get that from a guy, I may purposefully not reply at all because it annoys me so much. I feel like: get a life. I have stuff to do, and I don't want to be stuck reassuring you that I like you via flirty texts all day, because that often results in me not liking you anymore.
Your guy seems like the worst of both texting worlds - hope he stops being so annoying girl. I hear ya :P0