I've actually never even been on a date before, but my biggest fear is that we will completely run out of things to say after like 5 or 10 minutes into the date. Or even have dead silence in the car on the way there. Girls are you afraid of this too? Is this likely to happen or not really? I guess it's best to go on a date where their is an activity to fill in the quiet moments like going bowling. Right?
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Not really... maybe it's different with some people, but at least in my experience what makes a couple bond is a good conversation, while on the other hand... "doing" something without talking makes me feel super awkward next to the guy I barely even know. (unless we knew each other well beforehand, that is).
If you and your date have even the smallest thing in common, I can almost guarantee you won't run out of things to say. Just don't answer everything with a "yes" or a "no" because it will dull things up. Keep it interesting instead, but don't overdo it. If you run out of ideas or opinions for a moment, you can always ask her a question or two and just listen. That should help the conversation avoid being one-sided (maybe it's even better if she talks a bit more than you do) and you get to know her as well.
Maybe it sounds more complicated in paper than need be, but it really isn't. Chat about anything and everything you and she can just like you would chat with a friend. No need to add extra pressure or drama. If done right, things will just flow from there ;)0