I don't know how to phrase this question better really. The last several times I've made out with guys, or had them stay over whenever we're kissing or cuddling I think in my head what we're doing. So it's like okay, position one, now position 4, now 3. Like I can't stop this and just make out with the guy or cuddle. How can I stop thinking so much!? Never had this problem before!
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You should see how it works with sex in dirty movies. There's a serious formula aspect to what they do to each other. First X, then Y, then Z with subtypes for each activity. It does get boring after a while.
If you want to see some folks that have turned it truly systemic, check out Tantric sex and the Kama Sutra.0