Ok so there's this guy I work with who shows a lot of signs that he likes me. He hugs me really long. He looks at me softly/dilating eyes. He pokes or grabs my sides to make me jump from behind. Or when he greets me he just says hey M, and then pokes my stomach. When he wants me to do something for him like get his stuff, he'll tickle me to make me do it. I'm the only girl he does all this stuff for. He also lifts heavy things for me.
However, he won't call or text me much. Like sometimes he'll call me out of the blue and we'll talk for like 2 minutes and then he's off the phone or I'll text him if he's coming in today or where he's at and he'll text for a little and then stop texting. I'm just wondering if he's interested in me. because the phone thing just throws me completely off. I don't get on the phone much unless I like you but not texting back is also quite annoying too.
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Do you reciprocate some of the behaviour, show affection back at him? If not then maybe he is shy and doesn't want to come off creepy or stalkerish (this is a very real scenario for guys, and we have to be careful). If you reciprocate casually you may see his demeanour change in either way depending on how he is feeling.1
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