Would you quit or tell her goodbye?
If you're not a marijuna user whatever your vice is, that. Be it alcohol or cigarettes.
& if anyone cares we've been dating happily for nearly three years
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I've never smoked pot or cigarettes and I never will, not have I ever really drunk alcohol, but any girl who has the audacity to give me an ultimate is banished.
Ultimatums never work. They invoke the psychological principle of reactance, which, more or less, states that, whenever a person feels that his or her freedom is being restricted or his or her choices are being limited, he or she will almost always move toward that which is being restricted or limited. In other words, ultimatums actually cause what you are trying to prevent.2
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