I'm 23 and never even kissed. I've tried believe me (online dating, bars, clubs) ...online dating was the worst got the worst rejections after dates and even before I met them, after I lowered my standards. And all I get hit on by is a bunch of creeps, seriously.
One guy I was grinding up with at a club was simultaneously feeling up/touching a girl standing beside him at the bar. I found this out because she told me this was happening and if I knew him etc. I would have gotten my first kiss over with him that night and everything but after finding out he was groping another girl while grinding with me I ditched him.
Then I get hit on my drunk guys on the bus ride home. I've had one come sit beside me and then keep asking for my name, saying the same things over again. Give me his number. When I lowered my standards and decided to message him he decided he didn't want to meet up with me because he would have to drive 30 min. and I would have to come to his area, also asked me for pics as the night he hit on me I was wearing glasses...I'm surprised he even remembered.
I don't get why I only get these creeps and that started recently, I usually never got any attention from guys.
I think I'm actually a 7 out of 10. Guys online have said 8/10 and stuff but its probably because I'm photogenic. I have nice long black hair, I'm a decent height and just a little overweight but I workout. I've graduated from college and all that. I have my head on right but I can't get a guy to desire me, not a proper one anyways. I don't want to just go to a club and have sex with a guy I just met let alone not even attracted to!
UGH I don't know, what other reasons could desirable guys be put off by me?
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I agree with romantic peanut, especially in terms of finding a great guy in a bar... Don't assume that you're undesirable based on past experiences, and especially don't assume that the guys you have dated aren't also creeps. Dating is about keeping on trying until it works, it sucks at times... I've been on countless dates, I've been on good and bad dates, I've dated some great girls, but also lost them... it is tough, but I can't give up on dating just because of what has happened in the past. I mean if after my first bad break up I'd became shy about dating I'd not have met other people.0