So this guy and I knew each other for a while and he asked me to go for drinks at the local bar
but the girl he went on a few dates with works there and the first night he was weird about it and asked me if I thought she was mad? but said he didn't know she would be here and at first tried to get a table away from her area. And then a week later we are supposed to go there again maybe...unsure yet...
if he was still into her (he said he wasnt) would he avoid that bar with me or would he take me there and not care?
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That'a huge red flag. A massively big, fat, grossly large red flag.
I would never, ever take a girl to any place my ex works at. He's clearly bullshitting you with his "Oh, I thought she wouldn't be here despite this is her place of work. So, is she jealous ["mad"] yet? ...Oh, she's not jealous yet. Well, let's go here for our next date also, and I'll pretend to be surprised when she's working here but hoping she'll be jealous so she'll come crawling back to me so I back ditch you, because I'm not into you despite I'm bullshitting you that I am".
A big, massive red flag.