Is it ok for someone that is 19 to never had a boyfriend, and also never kissed someone? Will guys think this is weird?
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Well it IS okay and it doesn't make you weird.
That said, some guys might like that because your "unspoiled" so to speak. They're probably not the most confident, mature, open minded guys in the world, but some guys like that. Certainly saving up for sex with your true love is a big deal to many guys, and you have that to still offer, right?
On the other hand, inexperienced girls DO tend to be nervous and awkward the first few times at dating, kissing, well most new things. Just like inexperienced guys. So make sure he's sensitive to that and not inconsiderate or demanding more than you can do.
Finally, this is a little nugget from some (not all) guys' brains: truly inexperienced girls scare us because we know we're not really that amazing. We think that while we'll get you started (dating, kissing, sex) but eventually you'll likely get curious and bored and WANT to try other guys before settling down. So that actually stresses out many guys, long term. Rather, a girl who already knows what she wants from experience THEN chooses me feels more stable than a confused neophyte who thinks she might be weird. Just something to think about, virgins of the world.1