I miss him so much we dated for 6 months after 2 Weeks since we started dating he asked another girl out, he basically got caught. They didn't do anything because the girl said no she's like 9 years older than him, but she's really pretty. She also said you'll find a girl one day & he replied no I've been cheated on,dumped on. While I was nothing,but nice to him. I was crushed. He apoligized I went back to him, started being very nice to him, but I could never get what he did to me out of my head. Now I broke up with him two weeks ago for no reason because the thought of him cheating was making me really paranoid, there was no trust. Why do I miss him? I wasn't happy. I cry at school in the bathroom during break because the memories always come back & I feel so stupid. Also, I helped him so much emotionally & a bit financially. Does anybody have any advice on this, have you been through something similar? Is this normal?
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Well to me 2 weeks after dating I'm not normally granting exclusiveness. So I don't know what your relationship was at that stage, but for me that's not cheating - unless you had a talk first or already called each other boyfriend and girlfriend.
You had a talk and you forgave him, well you did not forgive him - that's why you broke up. So I take it that you did not trust each other enough, which is definitely needed to maintain a good relationship.
Yes it's natural that you a grieving, you can find some information on the process on the internet, just search for "5 stages break up grieving". Some experience it stronger than others. I know sometimes it's hard to believe, but you will be fine again - maybe even a bit better, since you will have gained experience.0