So, I'm fairly sure everyone has preferences regarding what they are attracted to. My question is, would you date someone who doesn't fit your preferences in terms of attractiveness?
For example: If you are highly attracted to blonde hair and blue eyes, would you still date someone if they had brown hair and brown eyes?
Or, for men, if you are super attracted to wide hips and a big butt on a girl, would you still date a girl if she had narrower hips and a small butt?
Would dating outside of those preferences be considered settling?
So, in other words, how strong are your physical attractiveness preferences regarding who you date? How much do your preferences really matter when it comes to choosing a partner?
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It doesn't, because I don't have preferences. I remember one of my older
cousins asked me once "what kind of guy do you look for?" I couldn't answer her,
I can never anwser that question when someone askes me that. Physically, I
don't have any preferences. Hair color, eye color, height, weight, muscles mass,
etc etc. These aren't things I think about. Personality, I know what I like and what
I don't, and when I find it, I'll know. But, nothings set in stone.
I don't want to sound like a flower child hippie lol, but for me it's not about
looks or a personality that I want the person to have or any preference that
I wrote down and said "it must be this way". For me, it's a persons energy,
aura or just some kind of connection that draws me to the person. I'll give you
an example: There was this guy about two years ago that worked at the
grocery store. And, before I even knew his name or what he looked like.
I just saw him walking through the store and I was just instantously drawn to him.
And, even though there were guys there that were very good looking, it didn't do a
thing for me. But, this guy did, he had my attention. I guess my point is, I'm
more of deep, spiritual, connection type person. Then I am a looks and preference
person (hope that makesense lol). I also hope that answers your question : )4
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