Prom is coming up and there is not one boy in my life right now who I could possibly go with. Where can I go to meet boys to potentially go to prom with? And how do I approach them and start talking to them? I'm seriously freaking out because I'm not going to have a date and I really need help. Thanks.
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You seem to be one of those girls who live very much in 'girls only' groups.
The world is 50% male and 50% female. But your world seems to be chosen 100% female. Your choice. At least one (nice and very intelligent) girl I know since 50 years has been choosing her company that way for 50 years. She's 67 now and still a spinster. She's still taking coffee once a week or month with 3 or four women, goes shopping and theater with women only. Even her female friends wonder why. They think she's not a lesbian. 50 years ago she wasn't the beauty queen of the class but largely pretty enough. Quiet, whispering, never speaking louder.
I don't know, I just can't figure out what makes her tick. Maybe she lived something that created an aversion for males? Something she wants to keep secret...
YOU can ask
-that guy who can't avert his eyes when you cross his path.
-a friend of your brother
-your best male friend or one of his friends
-the brother of your best female friend
-a brother of your sister's boyfriend.
One is enough.1