So I have this very good female friend. We get along great, like each other and text daily.
She is currently on a semester abroad in Europe.
This girl is VERY active and athletic and well I was not, I was kinda overweight.
Since my family, mostly my sister, intervened for health reasons I have become very active and athletic looking.
So my question is, do you think when my friend comes back she would consider dating me now that I actually look good and we share a common lifestyle? Would you date a guy who used to be overweight if you knew him like that.
Thanks Ladies :)
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I don't think the having been overweight and having seen you like that will make a difference.
The question will be how you two interact and how your personalities match up.
I have attractive male friends with whom there has never really been that flirtatious vibe. Doesn't matter what their lifestyle or body is like, the chemistry just isn't there.
If you want this, try not act too much like her brother or bff when you next see her. I'm not suggesting you act too different (you don't want to seem weird and unnatural) but it probably wouldn't hurt to SUBTLY introduce a little flirtation. SUBTLE is key. She knows you well and I think the change will already be a bit of a surprise. If she plays along when it is subtle, gradually step it up.0