So I am trying to figure out a second date. Our first date was to an Italian restaurant for lunch and then we walked around town and ate gelato (tried to make it Italian themed date).
Now I am struggling what to do for a second date. I was thinking about Ice Skating but I'm afraid that it might be too short of a date and I figured if I pair it with dinner it might be boring as we already went out to eat. My other thought was the aquarium but I'm not sure about it as it feels kinda kiddish. She likes plays and musicals and Romeo and Juliet is a play that is going on currently but I figured that might be too much for a second date and save that for a third date. My final thought was suggesting a half and half date where I pick half the date and she picks the other half but I'm afraid that may look like I'm trying to skip out on making a decision. Anyways do any of these sound like a good idea? From a women's opinion what makes a great second date?
Thank you for your help!
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I would suggest dinner and a movie, but I found that most guys just like to go inside to "make their own movie" with me, if you catch my drift. I don't know how progressed you have gotten with your first date, but if you were to do the "movie scene," and haven't gotten past a "kiss on the cheek" yet, it is fine, maybe hold hands and LITERALLY---watch the movie. I was quite impressed with YOUR "romantic Romeo and Juliet" play, and absolutely NOT "too much for a second date," and being she enjoys plays and musicals, this might be the way to go. I personally think skating and the Aquarium should be saved for when you both have gotten to the point in your relationship when it "feels kinda kiddish." As far as your "final thought" for another date, save this for when you both have done and seen everything and don't know what else to do, and when you have come "further into your relationship" where you both can choose "halfsies."If you don't mind me saying, sweetie, this girl is a lucky girl to get such a great "date planner." Wish there were more men out there who did this. A lot of men today only want a booty, not a cutie..0