Ok so me and my ex boyfriend dated for 7 months and I broke with him about a month ago.because he said he didn't know what he wanted. I still love him so much I and I really want him back. He has been a jerk to me. I decided to start hanging out with a guy friend and we walked home together and got Starbucks one day. Then my ex asked my friend if we were dating and a bunch of other questions and later he texted me being rude saying to text my "new bf" and he was just upset.
The next day I texted him and we I started to open up to him I I started telling him I think about him and he just stopped texting me in the middle of the convo saying "I have to let my phone charge for a little bit ill text you after" and he never did... I made myself look like an idiot and I sent him like 5 texts and he looked at all of them and never texted back but he liked my Instagram picture.
Then today I did the same thing. I asked him if he ever thought about me or missed me and he replied with "it's hard" and I sent him like 5 texts again and he ignored all of them.
Did I ruin everything?
What should I do?
Can this be mended?
What is he thinking?
Why is he doing this?
What could I do to make this better ?
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Your so-called "ex" as you refer him to, sounds as though he still loves you, too, still, maybe as much as you love him. He was obviously jealous about this "Starbucks stud" you had decided to start hanging out with, and of course, he is going to be angry and say and DO hurtful things. Even though he said "he didn't know what he wanted," doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings. Okay, so here you are writing in the end as though you want him back, "what can I do?" thing? If YOU DO really still love him and want to try to make a go of it again, then "forget the friend" right now, and make some arrangements to have a "meeting of the minds", to sort of speak. Talk things out, find out what is going on in his head with everything, being he has had a month to think, he did tell you "it's hard," and maybe, just maybe, by seeing you prance around another guy like some show pony , he has had a change of heart----and knows it is you that he wants.No, you haven't "ruined anything.." If anything, you gave him a "run for his money," honey...:)) Do yourself a favor, and let a few days go by for him to sulk, stew in his own juices, and see if HE texts you...He just might answer you back, but if you don't hear anything, then go ahead and tell him you would like to meet up.0