I never asked or hinted that I wanted it. I don't mind talking but I hate how it makes me feel like I'm chasing the guy. I always have to text first but he'll quickly reply so wth does that mean!?
If he was interested wouldn't he initiate contact caz that's what guys do well the ones that have asked for my number.
It's making me crazy caz I wasn't all that interested at first haha
I tried waiting til he texts me first but after a week I couldn't help but text first! It's like I'm hooked and I'm not even sure why.
Does this guy see me as an option or someone that he's got 'waiting' for him? If so I feel dumb for acting desperate since these guys say 'oh we should hang out sometime' and I say 'ya just tell me when and where' but we never do! For about the past 3 months its been only contact through texting. Not daily but weekly or every 2-3 weeks. And when I sent holiday texts to everyone like 'Happy new Year' none of them replied. I wasn't too hurt since some of my female friends don't reply either but still.
Like ugh they've got me obsessed! There's only 2 guys like this but I haven't texted one of them since last month. He is easier to resist since I've been talking to him less often. To be clear these aren't total strangers I met off the street. I met them separately at school and kinda of knew them a little before they gave me their number. And they hardly reply with one word texts so its really confusing
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Because 9 times out of 10 if a guy asks for a girls number she'll give it to him whether or not she'd actually go out with him, or even reply to his text if he does contact her. By giving you his number, and seeing if you'll call him, he at least knows you are a little interested if you call/text.
Oh...and I've never understood why girls/women think if makes them look "desperate" if they call/text a guy first. Does it make a guy look desperate if he calls/text you first? Of course not. Why does it work that way with you?0