I've been frustrated with my bfs past our whole relationship because I was a virgin when I met him at 18 years old and he was 19. He had been with... "4 or 5" girls. Now explain to me how he cannot remember how many... its not a million so is it sometime I should know about or are you truly just giving yourself room in case you remember later. Its been 4 years together and his story hasn't changed so I just let it go... but it bugged me why he couldn't commit to a number. I know everything about him and the major relationships he's had. there's his first girlfriend, the rebound who was like in love with him who got his name tattooed on her (They dated for a couple months but wasn't "official" then the girl right before me which he only dated for about a month... so if you count that's 4 girls in all. Why say there was 4 or so girls before me yet you can only "remember" 3? What is to hide? I already found out the worst... and its my standard of worse not his. I know this is petty Because its before me but does he think I'm stupid or something?
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I'm not sure how to answer you poll based on the way you phrased your question
but I remember my number
like you said if you've only had sex with 4 or 5 people you should rememberthem all. so it seems to me that he is not being entirely honest. If you go by the American Pie 2 theory you shuld divide whatever he says by 3 (and for a girl you multiply by 3).
i'm 31 now and first had sex at 17. I've had sex with...six people. that took me about 7seconds to remember. if you truly have a low number it shouldn't be hard to remember the exact number0