I am 20 years old and I'm currently going out with a 29 year old woman and she's totally against it,I don't know what to do I really like this woman but my mums on my back everytime! :(
Please give me some kind of advice! It's my life not hers!
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Older women are generally only looking for sex. Your mom knows this and is trying to protect you from getting hurt. Your mom is also going to take issue with her little boy being treated like a sex object from any woman. It just isn't the type of thing that is easy for a parent to accept. That said it is your life, and you need to make your own decisions.
You need to learn to find the balance of respecting your mother, and living your own life. Maybe you could try dating this woman, without talking to your mom too much about her, or bringing her over. I am not talking about lying to your mom, just don't shove it in her face. Eventually the relationship will end, you will have had your fun, and won't have destroyed your relationship with your mom.
However if you are still living with your mom, then she will still have some power over you. I doubt she would kick you out, but you do need to be prepared for you mom to be a burden on this relationship. Women never give up. You mom will never come around and be okay with this woman. Your mom will always be against it so the more you bring it up the more she will dig her heels in. The best advise I could give you is to not let your mom know much about your relationships.3