Okay so I'll apologize now. It's gonna be long. Please take the time...I truly appreciate it :)
Alright so I went out on an amazing date with this girl last week. She was touching my biceps/arm, laughing, complemented me, initiated a hug at the end of the date while saying she had a good time (wasn't just a friendly hug...she actually squeezed and had some time to it). After that I told her I didn't want to make a mistake this time and that I really like her...then we kissed.
After that, I texted her the morning after asking if she got home safely. She responded with a funny YouTube video. We sent 4/5 texts each and I said goodnight. I called her two days later. She answered but I was awkward on the phone out of nervousness. I asked her out for during the week and she said she was busy Tuesday and Thursday but would let me know later about Wednesday.
She texted me next day saying she's busy but "maybe this weekend we could meet up." I responded asking what her weekend looks like and I also said "I'll see what I have going on and get back to you on it."
It's been 36 hours without a response. What could be the issue? Did I say something wrong? Could one bad phone call have ruined it?
Basically, what are your overall thoughts on the situation?
I texted her Thursday morning. Said I'm busy Friday but asked if she's free Saturday. She responded almost instantly saying "What were you wanting to do?" so I replied "I got an email for a pottery class...we'd get to make stuff together on a wheel! How does that sound? Seems kinda fun to me, and I thought you may enjoy it too! Or else there are a ton of other ideas... "
That was Thursday morning. Now it's midnight.
What should I do next? My current plan is to call her Saturday morning.
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Nothings wrong, but you need to chill. So you had a good date, big deal. Just chill.
She showed interested by saying she was busy on the days you suggested, but also suggested a possible alternative day (the weekend). If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have suggested another time. BUT...when she suggested a possible meet up on the weekend you responded with asking her what her weekend looks like? I don't get it. Obviously her weekend wasn't completely booked and she was going to make an effort to see you, so why would you ask about what her weekend looks like? Didn't she imply she might be free by suggesting it?
PLUS...you also said you'll have to see what's going on and you'll get back to her on it.
I'm confused. The ball was in her court (when she suggested the weekend). You put it back in your court by saying you'd get back to her. But now you're waiting on her to get back to you even though you said you'd get back to her?
You've made it way too confusing. After she suggested the weekend, you should have said "sounds great, let me know". Nothing more.
I'm not sure who's suppose to get back with who now.1