Do you think it's a good idea to keep a girl in the dark about what we'll be doing on the date? For example, not saying what movie we'd be watching, where we'll be visiting, what we'll be eating, etc.
Imagine that this is one of the first few dates in the relationship. Is it a good idea?
Or would it be better if she knew it all?
Most Helpful Girl
If she knows you then it's okay. Surprise can be nice.
If she doesn't know you, it may sound like you're trying to lure her out into a dark alley to be murdered if you don't tell her anything about what your plan is.
On the first few dates, safety is paramount.1