first date was fine, just lunch and tea.
he came out on second date even with a bad cold. he was really sick and took me out. I got into his car, well...i smell the cigarette and its a total turn off.
i know I am allergic to it, but I didn't say I am however, he does know I was not happy that the car smells like cigarette.
the date was very nice, again, I felt so bad he was so sick and till took me out on a date. I can tell he likes me.
now I need to tell him I can't date him, I don't want to just disappear.
whats the best way to do this?
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Tell him you think he's a great guy. 'But unfortunately I can't continue seeing you because of the smoking. It's nothing personal, I'm allergic. Even if you don't smoke around me it's still on your clothes, in your car and hair. It really wouldn't be fulfilling relationship if I ------------ (insert your reaction) every time we see each other.'