What would cause you to not want to give a guy a simple kiss on the lips?

A question for the ladies

What would cause you to not want to give a guy a simple kiss on the lips at the end of a date (provided that the date went well and you liked him)?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Either:

    a) I'm not attracted to him

    or b) I am attracted to him but don't feel ready to break physical barriers yet.

    If I haven't known the guy beforehand (or for very long) then even if I am attracted to him, I won't kiss him. I have to get to know him first before swapping spit.

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    • Why would you go on a date with someone you werent attracted to?

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    • What are some things you find unatractive?

    • I will go on a date with people that I think have potential, but maybe on the date realize there is no attraction or chemistry. Happens a lot actually.

What Girls Said 6

  • If the date went well AND I liked him, I would give him a kiss on the lips. So if I didn't do that, the date either didn't go as well as he thought, or I don't like him as much as he thought. or both

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  • No attraction is number one. Bad breath, wrong moment for the kiss, wasn't ready for the kiss. There are a lot of reasons why she could have backed down. Ask her.

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  • I don't kiss on the first date. After the first date, I wait for the guy to make a move and kiss me.

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  • If it's our first date then no matter how much I like him I wouldn't give him a kiss on the lips haha I don't know why, but somehow I just don't want to seem easy or something like that so I would kiss him after X dates ONLY if he kissed me first.

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  • Lack of attraction, or I get the feeling he judges girls for moving too fast physically.

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    • Why would you go on a date with someone you werent attracted to?

    • Well if I knew 100% beforehand that I wasn't attracted then I obviously wouldn't go. But if it was a guy I'd met briefly, or online, then I don't really know for sure. It takes going out and seeing each other in person again to make a decision.

    • What are some things you find unatractive?

  • Is this a first date? We may have had a good time but I don't go swapping spit with guys I don't know. And after a first date I don't know him well enough.

    I always kiss my boyfriend after dates but I've known him for six years and have been dating for two :p

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