Ok so me and my girlfriend dated for almost 2 and a half years, I am currently 21 and she is 19, we were both each others first major relationship. She told me about 3 months ago that she wasn't feeling the same about our relationship as she had at the start. So I asked her if there was anything that I had done wrong or anything that I hadn't done that she wanted me to, she said that there wasn't anything that I had done and that I was a great boyfriend but for some reason she just didn't feel the same anymore. So we decided that we would keep on going and see if she was just going through a phase. During the next three months it was like a roller-coaster, some days she seemed completely happy and other days it just seemed like she could care less if she was with me or not. well around 2 weeks ago she asked me to come over and when I came over she told me that her feelings hadn't changed and that she thought it was best if we broke up... I asked her If there was anything more we could do to try to fix things and she said she didn't think so, so I told her that I agreed that that was probably the best thing to do and that I wished her the best, we were both starting to tear up so I then gave her a hug and told her goodbye. Like I said its been two weeks since we broke up and I still miss her like crazy! I haven't contacted her at all and she hasn't contacted me. All of my friends have told me that this breakup was for the best and that I should just get over her because I deserve better, and I know that there were times when she treated me like crap but there were also really good times. I know I shouldn't be doing this but I check her Facebook every once in a while and I see her posting lyrics for sad breakup songs and songs about missing your ex... So the real thing I'm trying to figure out now if I should text her or just wait and see if she text me! part of me is thinking that I shouldn't text her because she is the one that broke up with me so it should be on her to text me or not. But then the other side of me is thinking that I got nothing else to lose so why not give it a try. at the least I'm thinking I would wait another two or three weeks before texting her so I could get my mind straight and give her more time to think as well, and possibly give her a chance to text me. If I did text her I would just send a short text something along the lines of "hey! would you be up for meeting up today for lunch or dinner so we could catch up" I figured in doing this I would be able to at least maintain my dignity cause its not like I'm begging her to take me back. So what do you think? should I text her in 2 or 3 weeks or just forget about her and move on or wait for her to make a move?
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60 days at least and maybe not even then. She broke up with you so the problem is hers. She needs to come to terms. Posting sad lyrics and songs on Facebook is common for girls to do after a breakup. She working through her emotions. If you contact her, you'll always wonder if she would've contacted you. Best to have that question answered.0