I was in a long term relationship, and ended it at 28, so I don't have a lot of experience dating. But in the past year I've been on 7 first dates. I'm a little shy (I use booze to relax me a little), and most of the time, my date times me at the end of the night how they had such a great time, even though I didn't really enjoy it (although, I'm making an effort to find someone to marry so I'm giving it my best). I'm starting to think that if I can get my date talking a lot (which I normally can do) it means that they're having a good time.
Do girls generally enjoy themselves if they're able to talk about themselves and have someone listen to them? (cuz if so, this is so easy for me to do)
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Everyone is different. I've dated men that hardly talk which I find makes me a little more talkative because I don't like awkward silence. The guy I'm dating now talks a LOT. I mean I can hardly get a single word in. I recently told him this and he said he had no idea and so now I just touch his arm and look at him to kinda let him know that I'm sitting here listening but I slow it down lol. Maybe this type of person is what you are looking for since you like to listen. I love to listen rather than talk so It's a good match but it's not perfect.
I think when you find your match it will just naturally fit and you wouldn't be asking this question. And you will not walk away from the date thinking you didn't enjoy it.0