I asked this guy to get coffee and chat but I'm not sure if he will think it's a date? We are both college students (he's a graduate student and I'm a junior in my undergrad). So I texted him and said:
"Hey! I hope you had a good break. I was wondering if you would want to catch up over a cup of coffee? I have some stuff I want to talk to you about. Let me know!"
And he said back:
I had a pretty good break, thanks! Yes, I would be happy to get together and talk. I'm also deeply obsessed with coffee - so getting coffee would be a great thing as well. How about sometime next week?"
I don't know if he took it as a date date or as just getting coffee? I'm so nervous. I mean, he's an older guy, so I don't really know what he's thinking. Help!
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He might be thinking to himself "Is this a date? Or does she just want to catch up for coffee and a chat?" I think it depends on how you are when you catch up. If you are not wanting it to be a date and just keep it as a friendly thing, then don't flirt or give him any "cues" just be comfortable with him and friendly, he will pick up on the vibe that you are giving him.0