I've met this guy online and we've been talking and all for like a month but the last conversation we had was a weak ago it was a goodone and he seemed really happy but it's been a weak and I got nothing from him , and I'm starting to think he is not gonna text me ever again , do you think there is hope he will ? And should I text him or would that seem desperate?
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Sometimes guys will play that game where they show interest in you by calling, texting, and/or emailing, Facebooking you alot, then they back away, cause they think the ball is in your court, and they want to see if you have just as much interest in him as he does in you. Honestly, I don't like guys that play games, but there could be many possibilities as to why this guy is doing this. But more than likely it's because he's playing that same old game that guys have been playing for a very long time which is the "Show interest, then pull back" game.
There is no harm in texting him, and I would just text him, but I wouldn't say something "Hey" I would text him either a question or a conversation starter type text so it's easy to respond to. Cause if you just send a simple text like "Hey" that might not give a response, lol! I usually don't respond to those type of texts, lmao! So text him either a question or a conversation starter text. It wouldn't look desperate, however if he doesn't respond to your text I would call him, and if he doesn't respond to your call then I would ditch the dude. Let me know how it works out and if he gets back to you! Like I said I just think he's playing games to see if you are interested, and remember guys don't want to look needy or desperate either! So he could just be backing away cause he doesn't want to give you the impression that he's desperate. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)1