If she doesn't contact me by some time tomorrow shall I give up on her?

We met on a night out last Friday. She put her number in my phone when I asked her to because I wanted to go out on date with her. I wrapped my arm around her waist and gave her a hug and she did the same to me. I kissed the side of her head to, just for the wooing of course.

I sent her a message Sunday afternoon asking if she wanted to go out together on Wednesday and she said she couldn't because her work finished at 9pm. I went on to ask whether Friday was better for her and she said she "Might" be able to go but will only know until Wednesday if she can.

I told her OK and just to let me know when she knows.

Haven't heard from her since then.

If I don't hear from her tomorrow shall I :

  • Text her myself and ask whether she is free on Friday?
    Vote A
  • Let her contact me rather than the other way round?
    Vote B
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She hasn't answered yet ... I think she's busy ... I'm heading home for the weekend.


Most Helpful Girl

  • if she really wants to hang out with you she'll make some effort! its better not to turn into that "annoying guy"

    • I never want to turn like that kind of guy, I have contacted her and I'm doing my thing until she does - without keeping my hopes up of course.


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What Girls Said 4

  • Maybe she is really busy, but just wait a little bit longer you'll never know what could happen in the next couple of minutes, hours seconds, etc...It could change!

  • If she really wanted to go out with you, she'd contact you. Don't kid yourself about her "just being busy". But I'd wait for another week before forgetting about her completely.:) Let her contact you this time though. You don't want to be annoying in case she really is too busy to call (which is very very unlikely, sorry.:)). Let us know how it went.

  • wait for her to text you.

  • You have made your interest in her loud and clear.. time for her to step up and reciprocate that interest or get left behind.


What Guys Said 1

  • Nope. It's up to her now.

    • Yeah I agree, I haven't contacted her and I'll give her as much time as she needs.

      I personally thought she was interested and if she wasn't she wouldn't have so happily and readily answered my texts. Girls are a bit difficult haha!