I have been talking to a guy for over a week. We have spent hours on the phone...sent pics...not nudes. But when I met him he wanted to have sex immediately. Then when I wouldnt...he said I was a turn off and I started crying. I had to leave. This was the final straw...I am giving up on dating.
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The two anonymous ones said it pretty well; move on, and move on.
Sometimes we guys get too direct when we get old and lonely. Or we just get inconsiderate. Or we think with the little head instead of the big one. For many of us it seems our Creator played a cruel joke on us guys, giving us two heads with which to think, but only enough blood to run one of them at a time.
Talking a week isn't long enough to get to know much, especially if that isn't in person. So much communication is done non-verbally, and when one is talking on the phone or on line, even with pictures exchanged, that non-verbal component is missing.
Try to remember that we are not all horny mutts. There are those of us who actually value what is between the ears and shining from the eyes. If you give up on dating and/or on men in general, you might miss one or a few or more who want to know you as a person, a human, and a potential friend. Ultimately, friendship will last when everything else fades.
As for the guy you mentioned; he's probably not worth any further thought. Move on. Men are like buses. If you miss one, another is coming around the corner in a short while, and will probably be more comfortable to be with than the one you missed. Keep your values. The right man will honor and respect that. If he doesn't, just check out the next one.
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