Hi to everyone! First of all sorry for long question. This is my first post on any forum till now. I like one girl, we are both students. She has a boyfriend that is no longer near her, I mean long distance relationship(and it will be for a LONG time, few years like), they were not even for a long together, maybe few months beffore he had to leave country, I think this is cooling down between them. I like her a lot, I got a crush on here, honestly. When ever I walk by, she smiles, she always look at me, and I think whenever I turn around she is always verry near me, she even seat reverse a lot of times (I guess so she could see me siting in upper part of the class.). She was teasing me constatly, and she is smiling on my jokes always(btw I am funny guy, seriously). I told that Because I know that those are good indicators. BUT, when I text her online she could just ignore sometimes, and don't respond with bye or see you. good night etc...she use emoticons a lot in text with me, she once send me wigle once and thigns like that. I never had any relationship and I am 8 year older. I am not some unexpirienced looser, I had sex etc..dont want to brag about that. Honestly, I know I look good, I was poppular guy in high school, I know that a lot of girls liked me, but I was afraid of being hurt or afraid of relationship and never had anything beside sex, everyone thought that I was arogant jerk who is using people. I want relationship, I am dying for it right know, I changed all my life, I am lot better know, but still I am insecure (problem is no one even think about that Because I always act macho). What to do? Please tell me, if I got rejected it would ruin my self esteem and ego, I just don't want to fail, couldn't stand that. I had problems and bad things in my past, car accidents, lost of best friend, injuries, surgeries, rehabs...i was depressed etc...Now I am trying to go on with my life and to live my life like normal guy. I want to be with her, and I want to do that in the best way so I could get her, don't want one night sex, I know that sounds gay but I want to hold her hands and be romantic etc...offcourse I am sexual person, that's not even point, but I want relationship! What is best thing to do that, to check if I have some chacne with her? Also rember that she have a boyfriend, and she is HOT, she knows that, she knows that she is a gold mine for a lot of guys! Or I should just give it up, cut the agony, continue with study, job, training, looking for one night sex till I find new oportunity. Please help me, just please girls, I need that one, be honest and real!
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I personally think it is a bad idea if you try to "chase" her because she already has a boyfriend, it doesn't matter if he isn't near her, they are a couple. And I think that if you and this girl do something more..be together or whatever then it is a bad thing and not a good thing for you, because if she cheats on his boyfriend with you then the chances are extremely high that she will cheat on you with someone else etc.1