Hey everybody, this question is mainly aimed for the people who are open-minded. lol Anyways, I went out with this man who I use to work with. I had quit my job and after 2 weeks after he had asked me to hang out. We hung out last night and everything was going swell. We went out for a few drinks. He started rubbing my shoulder, leg and moved my chair so I can be closer to him. Duke and Syracuse game was on last night and we bet last min. if I lost I would have to kiss him.
After that was done with we left the bar and he asked me where I wanted to go. I've never been to a gentlemen's club so I'd suggested we go there. He was totally OK with it and so once we got there he asked me if I was sure I wanted to go in. I said yes and so we went..
I was amazed at how well those women can work those poles! We both ended up getting a lap dance together, at the same time. It was an interested date nonetheless. I thanked him for popping my stripper club cherry and I kissed him towards the end of the date.
Do you think it was too much for a first date? I've heard many stories at work about him and he is quite the ladies man but I'm really jaded when it comes to men that I don't fall for the sweet talk anymore ( I noticed he was texting a few females here and there when we were together but it's w.e because we are still "friends". We placed a bet on the Broncos vs. Seahawks and I lost lol so I have to take him out to dinner now.
Don't know if I should wait for him to set it up since he's a firefighter and I don't know his schedule. Please help.
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starting out, no one expects him to be automatically exclusive but the fact that he was texting other girls while on a date with you is super disrespectful and indicates that he's a player or just insensitive. The fact that he was 1) already on a date with a girl 2) at a strip club surrounded by other girls (and half-naked to completely naked at that) and still needed more "female attention" indicates that he's both an attention whore and a man whore. Unless you want a sex friend (and make sure to use condoms because he's clearly not just sticking to one lady) or a regular friend, I'd move on.2