Not a fling but a long term relationship.
What are the pros v. cons of dating a single mom?
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I have dated one before. The biggest con is that you usually won't meet the kids till much later. So you spend all this time meeting and getting to know someone without knowing how you'll get along with her kids...which is a critical part of it all.
The most important thing I think with dating one is that you need to find out and understand how she treats her kids...how she disciplines and encourages them. Get her to talk about them as much as possible so you know what she thinks of them and what they might be like. That's the best advice I can think of anyway.0