So I met this guy on this online game and we ended up becoming friends and now we're in a relationship. Friends for 3 months, dating for one 1/2. We text everyday and Skype sometimes.
The problem is we live in two different states and have not met in person yet.
I know, but he hasn't directly said he loves me. But if he loved me, wouldn't he want to visit me? I feel weird and want to meet him in person before it gets more serious.
Whenever I hint at the possibility of him visiting he doesn't seem too interested. And I don't want to make him visit if he doesn't want to. I know he can afford it.
So should I ask him now to visit? If so, how do I bring it up without seeming overbearing/too intense?
Or should I wait for a few more months to pass together before asking?
Btw we're both 18, I'm a senior and he's in a gap year with a part time job.
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I don't see how you can claim to be 'dating' someone you've never been on a date with. Him balking at a visit is a MAJOR red flag. I think you do owe it to ask him to ask him outright. Your "hints" may go over his head. Who cares if he takes it as overbearing? To me, I wouldn't hesitate at all to visit someone I was supposedly interested in.0