I have met a new friend yesterday and we were messaging on the phone, our messages were quite normal like hey where are you from, what do you do etc. How can I make the message conversation more fun instead of like normal 'hi bye' friend kind of chat? Thanks for replying!
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In conversations girls usually leave subtle hints to guide you along with the conversational flow.. In texts, they usually like to follow from what I've noticed. The more exotic/rare the conversation is, the stronger their attention is to your texts when they come in; if it's too much for "any" reason they will give short cheezy replies (e.g. "Yeah.. hah" / "Lol..." / "i'm busy"...) Be aware of how she's vibing with the conversation, if you're talking/texting more than her - back off and give her a chance to reply (aka... get lost in a project / with your buddies and forget phones even existed).
The last tips are about being aware of your surroundings / the conversation / etc.. get creative, learn what's going on, listen to people you frequently talk to so that you have material to converse about. Most people are simple minded hence the prior suggestions but some people are more ... directional? E.g. they might passionately dive into a conversation about horseback riding / construction / style / etc... Kinda risky diving too deep into any singular topic (from my stance, it usually lands me in the friend zone, which isn't a bad thing for me anymore as I actually avoid relationships for personal reasons).
Hope the tips help, as always, stay refreshed with a nice mtn dew and you'll sparkle like a G.0