Ok, so I've been on a couple of dates with this really nice (so I think) guy and the other night we were watching a movie at his house we were making out and went to bed and kept on fooling around for like hours. We did not have sex, he wasn't pushy but very respectful, but I was totally teasing him, and ended up giving him just a hand job. During the makeout session, he gave me some over the shorts action, and I wouldn't let him do anything under the drawers. He kept trying which was kind of rude I think, but at no point was he out of control forward about it.
We were talking about it the next morning in bed and I reexplained to him that it's just how I felt about it and only let guys that are special get that far... Now what I meant, and hopefully at some point it came out of my mouth properly, was basically I want to be in a relationship before I give up my lady parts... He said that he just didn't feel like I was into it and it seemed like I hurt his ego a wee bit...
So guys, would this hurt your feelings genuinely and would you assume that a girl wasn't into it? It has been a couple days since he has texted me and I don't know what's up?
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Yes, you've hurt his ego.
He set himself a goal and he failed.
Many guys think (and I sympathize with this view) that pretty much any girl can be seduced at any time provided that she is turned on enough by the guy. In other words, allegedly, there are very few girls who could genuinely resist ANY guy.
So, as he sees it, you're just not into him. Probably he's moved on. I admit I do this with some girls too.0
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