In 12 years I've only been with guys who couldn't care less about sex. Granted, I was pretty fat and ugly for the first half of that but I'm not anymore- I'm not beautiful or anything, but I'm at least in good shape and don't dress like a little kid... Anyway, being unattractive physically made me "lead" with my personality. I don't push guys into relationships with me and if they leave, they leave, but weirdly enough plenty would want to stay with me even though they only wanted a platonic and usually cerebral relationship, where sometimes I end up being a mommy or a therapist (but not a sugar momma lol, I don't make enough money to be one). How do I get guys to just use me for my mediocre body? Lol I know this is the opposite of the typical girl's complaints, but seriously, I have a high sex drive and have spent over a decade BEGGING AND BRIBING men to simply touch me. They all argue that I shouldn't want physical intimacy and usually try to insist that I'm some sort of wholesome nun (?), I guess because the thought of an ugly girl having a sex drive is beyond disgusting (but then why date me? Again I don't make a lot of money!). I have the rest of my life to be a lonely nerd; how do I have a few years of some kind of sex life before I'm too old? I'm so sick of just being a cuddle buddy I can't imagine going through the rest of my life like this :( I'm fine with hiding my personality and all, I just need to know what to hide because it's only for short-term dating anyway... I can't really do anything else to improve my appearance...
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Hang out in bars where guys are drunk and grope them and stuff. Bars are made for hookups. Anyone in a bar is pretty much for hookups unless they're an alcoholic couple with a lot of cheating drama going on. If the guy doesn't grope you, get him more intoxicated. Rub his penis a lot and call him some dirty, but cute petnames. If he's drunk enough he won't be able to see straight thus making you automatically fuckable.
Find a drug addict who is completely off the wall with his addictions and really horny. Fuck the shit out of him when he's high. If he's not high enough, bring alcohol, preferably hard liquor for a faster buzz.
Ruin a marriage. Find a married guy with a sex life gone to shit. Bring him home and leave your laptop monitor off but recording the whole thing and send it to his wife when you are done.
Find a bisexual partner and invite a guy to a threesome. This way you're automatically in because there's a second girl involved. You may be secondary because she could be more attractive but hey, it's sex!