So you need time to think. Do you like receiving a txt from your girlfriend during that time? Do you still check in with her? What about Valentine's Day? (Would you still wish her Happy V-day?)
My boyfriend and I are still together but he needs time to think.
He doesn't send me any txts anymore (two txts within a week and since Tuesday = nothing) and ignored my v-day email completely. He was online, so he saw it. I am confused.
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Men are not good multi-taskers. If he says he needs time to think, then he's going to devote his time to that. That means no texts and so on because they are just distractions.
Speaking for myself, when I need time to myself, I want my girlfriend to be able to go off and do her own thing with her own friends for a while. I want to know I can devote my energies to my problem, and not have to worry about her and what she's doing or thinking, or how she's fantasising the relationship falling apart.0