So on Monday I got this girls number who is seriously a 10. She is absolutely beautiful, like she's flawless. The reason I'm debating to text her is because she is so far out of my league, I have no Idea why she gave me her number, and she was pretty into me my friends said. Don't get me wrong I'm not some ugly creature of the sea, I'm in good shape and above average looking I just feel I would be wasting my time as when we meet she would probably feel she could do better, looks wise. What do you think I should do? If I should text her what should I say?
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There is no such thing as "being out of someone's league". It is all in your head. Trust me.
I have had tons of close female friends who are absolutely stunning and they have revealed to me their psyche in various dimensions. For some of them, after getting to know them, one may deem them as unattractive as some girl with a less pretty face. The whole idea of someone being out of your league comes from our own insecurities. It is a story we have told ourselves.
You cannot attach all of this worth to some female just because she looks so beautiful on the surface. Surface beauty does not equal many things such as loyalty, emotional stability, honor, integrity, genuine charm...things that are timelessly beautiful unlike the physical beauty which may go away.
I think you should just relax, take a deep breath and be a little fearless. =)
Stop setting yourself up for anxiety and emotional stress. Never place so much undeserved value on a stranger. Don't discredit people on site and don't give someone too much credit either. Just be very chill about it, text her like "Hey! How's life?" Think "simple" ; the basic components of a conversation with your own personal style.1