I went on three dates with this nice woman. Even brought her her favorite flowers on the third date. I've had a hard time getting close to her like holding hands or something because she tends to keep her arms and hands busy by like gripping her scarf or purse. I went to hugh her and then went to plant a kiss on her cheek. I did so but as I finished I wondered if he hadn't tried to turn her head for a full kiss. We still had a nice time. I knew she didn't want to do anything Friday (She has already stated she dislikes going out Fridays because it's the start of her weekend and she relaxes). I call her Friday night to talk and ask if she wanted to go out again. I left a voicemail; first time I've had to. Oh, she had also mentioned she was spending the day with a friend this weekend but didn't say which day. Well, 26 hours later, I have not heard back from her.
I'm guessing don't call again? Leave it up to her? If she doesn't want to go out again, I'll be disappointed, but I'd prefer she at least text that, so I don't know what's up. If I did call again, when should I?
Could it be cause I didn't go for full kiss? Maybe she doubts my interest? I do move slowly. I know this. Perhaps if we do go out for a fourth, simply being bold and saying I've thought about kissing her all week, and just do it at the start?
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I wouldn't be too worried. Everyone goes at their own pace, and some are more naturally inclined to being all touchy from the start. With me, I found it a little difficult to kiss even after I had been dating my boyfriend for 2 weeks. I had him over at my place and we were watching a movie during which we loooked at each other and just had that moment where he went for the kiss. Even though that happened beginning of January, I still kinda get caught off guard when he goes in for a kiss when saying goodbye and such.
In other words, just let it happen. She could've turned her cheek because she didn't see the kiss coming. Don't contact her again and if she reaches out to your, take it day by day. Let the moment where you just know you just have to kiss her happen. :)1