There is this guy. He is 50 and I am 34 and yes he is single.
I gave him my number he texts me back. He gets a bit flirty also. He mentions though that if anything were to happen with us it will only be sexual.
I don't mind this and tell him I have the same intention he does.
I invited him out for a drink last night.
He responded with how he has his son full time, works as well, when he does not have him.
Surprised he did not even try to work around that. He just kind of gave up.
Feeling a bit bummed about it and just wonder why he even bothered to text me in the first place if he was not up for anything.
I replied to that I hope so as well. But in the mean time the offer is still there.
Then the texts continued as he explained his situation to me.
Forgot to mention that!
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In my opinion, he was being the "distant" type, to try to convey that he isn't serious... men can play "hard to get" as well, you realize.
At the end of the day, at 34, you shouldn't be chasing a guy like this... why not pick some nice guy who truly wants to be with you, will respond to you, and, Mademoiselle ~ will want more than just a roll-around in the hay.
A gentleman desires more than this from a Lady, a gentleman will desire your company.
Chivalry is not dead, at least not yet.1