I know meeting someone on POF or Tinder or whatever is still a little weird, although like everyone is doing it. SO, if you developed great chemistry with someone (me) and we exchanged numbers and planned a date, and you cancelled last minute (a few hours before)... obviously you're nervous. I find it hard to believe you really had to rush your mother to the hospital or just remembered you had to go to a party.
My question is - does that mean you changed your mind for sure, or you're just nervous that time and want to see if I'll still talk to you and ask you out again?
I normally just delete the number if a girl flakes once, but maybe I'm flushing good opportunities down the toilet...
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Sorry I'm not a girl. But I do work in an office with abut 50 women. We always joke I'm just one of the girls. I'm not sure if that really counts though. LOL!
Everyone deserves a second chance.
Was her excuse dis-honest? You can't say for sure. You don't know her well enough.
She knows your intentions. Don't just abandon her. But let her make the next move. Let her arrange the next date. If she contacts you, great. If she doesn't...it's like deleting the number without the work. LOL! You've lost nothing.