the guy I have been seeing for a few months is making chili wed night for us, should I offer any kind of help with paying for any of the ingredients or cook it or just let it be
First time him cooking me, I have cooked for him but he had always done a favor for me prior.
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Favors should be unconditional, let him cook the chili. It makes me uncomfortable doing a favor for people when they feel the need to help out with half the favor I wanted to do for them anyway. Please don't do anything out of obligation, it is really annoying. You could surprise him with a home made dessert though :) or make some corn bread to go with the chili? Have fun!0