My boyfriend is really pissing me off. He seems to think I can always drop my plans and just see him based off just his schedule. He just sent me a text and I don't even want to talk to him, as it always seems to be at just his convenience.
We both have imessaging, so he can see when I read the text. Would it bother him more if he saw I read it, and didn't reply? Or should I wait to read it for at least an hour?
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You need to tell him that you made other plans, and that next time, he needs to give you some advanced warning.
Until he has to deal with the consequences of his behavior, he isn't going to change his attitude about expecting you to be at his beck and call. You have to be the one to create those consequences, and you do that by not being available when he doesn't give you any advanced warning. Either he'll start to take you seriously in the future, or he won't, and you'll know he doesn't respect you, and you can then break up with him and find someone who does.0