I know I am older then usual to be new to the dating world but I cannot change my past, and I must accept that I am a late starter. I recently had my first kiss with a very pretty girl one year older then me who had been in a long term relationship where she gained a lot of experience. She broke my heart by slowly pushing me away after that night. I have been so confused by she is doing what she is doing because we ended the night well and kissed each other goodbye. She has a dark past with mental issues and warned me that she didn't want to hurt me but she pushes people away subconsciously (which is why it has been a while since she was in a relationship). Do any of you have advice on how you accept emotional blows while dating so you keep your regular life going?
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Are you still trying to pursue a relationship with this girl or are you trying to learn from the experience? I think that you should focus on what happened to the point of moving on- and realize that the reason the blossoming relationship ended was because of her not you. Any feeble attempts to rekindle can make you seem very annoying. I think you should spend your time with your friends and busy yourself in your time so you aren't still focused on the relationship that won't happen.0