I've been 'dating' a man, it's been about a month, we had sex for the first time last night and this morning, it was lots of fun, the thing is, I don't think I'm that into him I've realized. When I left this morning he said 'let's do it again soon', I nodded, knowing in my mind it probably won't. How do I blow this off? He's 10 years older than me, charming and sexy, but just not what I'm after.
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Please don't make stupid plans about how to blow him away. I was horrified to find out how a lot of girls are making complex scenarios to break up, sick scenarios that takes a lot of time before the break up happens.
Why wasting his time and also yours ? I would really appreciate the honesty instead of stupid lies and techniques that are supposed to make me go away.
The best way is to do it as fast as possible and very direct. You just have to tell him exactly how you fell. Tell him that he's not what you're looking for. That's it ! simple, fast, effective.
And because its been only a month and probably nothing serious, I think you could do it just with phone call or even a text.0