When looking at someone as a potential partner, which of these in your opinion affects your opinion the most in terms of if you'd date them?
- No confidence or low self esteemVote A
- Homely or ugly faceVote B
- Inexperienced or socially awkwardVote C
- Shorter than average heightVote D
- Too much overweightVote E
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No confidence or low self esteem I suppose, since it's difficult to get out of that kind of mindset. I don't want to be with a guy who constantly puts himself down, or refuses to do certain things because he doesn't believe in himself. Such a huge turn off to me. Almost everything else you listed is easily fixed.
Homely or ugly face - depends on what kind of "ugly". Monobrow or otherwise eyebrows that are too thick? Just pluck them. Weird teeth? Get them straightened at the dentist, or at least whitened. A good haircut and some skincare products go a long way, too.
Inexperienced or socially awkward - you can easily gain experience just by doing stuff. And almost everyone is socially awkward to some degree. So it wouldn't be a huge deal breaker to me, as long as the guy is willing to try new things and step out of his comfort zone once in a while.
Shorter than average height - this one obviously you can't fix. But as long as he isn't significantly shorter than me, I don't care much about height.
Overweight - can be fixed with regular workouts and a healthy diet.0