We've been friends for about 5 years. We've become very close and had our differences over the years. Yet, last year, we began joking about dating and that we'd go on "dream dates". I came out as bi-sexual that year. As time went on, the flirting continued, but one night it got more serious. The sexual tension was high and after that night, we admitted we liked each other as more than friends and wanted to kiss. She was "straight" at the time. Things got weird, because my feelings were hurt (which I didn't expect). However, a few nights ago, we started talking about sexuality and one thing led to another, but she admitted thinking about wanting to kiss me. We both expressed our fantasies over text. She suggested meeting and seeing how it went. However, she hasn't texted me today... I can't help, but wonder if she's scared again. We were very honest about our long standing feelings for each other (she currently has a casual bf). Does she want to kiss or no? I'm not sure what to do, but I want her so badly.
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She is probably really scared of what she is feeling. She is confused by all the different emotions coming at her at once. I would maybe text and just tell her that you're there for her if she needs anything. Also maybe just ask why she stopped being your friend so rapidly, just so you can have closure yourself.0