I have been dating this girl for the last few months. Things have moved faster than planned. We are both Bipolar. It is a very sticky situation. She is married, but is going through a divorce. Her ex makes us look normal. One minute he will be calm and understanding, the next he will flip out and constantly harass her and sometimes myself.
Anyways he manipulates her easily. Besides him, our relationship was going well. I really struggled to do this, but I let her borrow my truck while I work nights. The first few times it was ok. But one day she said she had one of her BP impulses and took my truck to the bar and hung out with her ex. He got her drunk and she almost got raped in the parking lot. He just walked away. She came to my job at 4am crying and I calmed her down and called the cops... She is ok, but It was hard to give her my trust. I want to know if she really cares for me. She treats me like a king, our sex is great, and she seems to really love me.(That happened too fast too.) Here are my questions.
Does she really care for me?
I understand having the impulses of BP. I got Beavis and Butthead tattooed on my wrists...
Do you think she may be taking advantage of me?
How do I gain trust for her? Thanks
Most Helpful Girl
wait…. ur dating a married girl? dude come on…. at least wait until the divorce is over…
if u really love and respect her u will do whats right for the both of u…
she cares for u but her head is a bit confused because the other guy isn't completely out of the picture, which is why i suggest that happens asap before u get into anything more.
u need to talk to her. like for a while. u ask her, look what do u want? after she tells u, u say, well this is what i want….
hopefully what u both want is the same. if she's confused u need to give her time. if she's worth it, i bet you'll wait. thats all i can say.1
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