I was pretty indecisive about this guy who liked me because I knew he had a girlfriend he recently broke up with, and I wasn't sure he was over it. He wanted us to get to know each other, but I was always pulling away.
Now he's at the point where he doesn't trust my feelings for him (I took awhile before telling him I liked him, too), and I'm at the point where I'm ready to take a chance. He doesn't know his ex was a big reason I was acting the way I was, and I don't want him to think I was intimidated by her. I was just being cautious.
What can I say or do to prove that I'm not just playing games with him? He acts like he's still likes me, but in the end, he doesn't trust me. What can I do to rebuild that?
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You tell him the truth. "I am sorry, I was holding back because I was being cautious, you just got out of a relationship and I didn't want to be a rebound. Please know that I do really like you and hope we can move forward. I am sorry I wasn't honest with you before".1