I'm somewhat average 5 foot 4 inches. 115 pounds.
Just can't seem to make on-line dating work for me. I am shy and it's hard to take that step to actually fussing about a date and then meeting a person.
How do I meet people if not on a dating site.
The people I meet at work I do not want to date.
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Good move not wanting to date someone at work. It really shouldn't be that hard for any woman really. One thing that helps is if you can hide your profile. If you start at a site sometimes after your done setting up your profile up hide it and wait a couple of weeks. That way you don't get pounced on as a newbie. The other things would be to set your filters to what your looking for age, distance and so on.
You have to get out there a couple of times in order to feel comfortable. Sure it's not easy but if take your time in wanting to meet. a few e mails a phone conversation or two. You don't want to spend to much time in cyberspace and develop a virtual connection because 9 times out of 10 you'll be disappointed. Remember you're in control don't let anyone rush you or speak to you dis respectfully (sex Talk). That's what the block key is for. Remember nothing you read or people you talk to are real until you meet. I think you'll find you might like it. You do need to develop a thick skin in this arena. Good Luck and be safe! J B0