I've learned that guys need the chase and almost always end contact if you sleep with them.
I'm sort of seeing this guy. I like him as a person and don't want to sleep with him (yet) or lose him.
Is it better that I just go home alone after going to the bar? Or does it even matter?
Thanks in advance :)
- He will respect you less if you go home with him regardlessVote A
- He will respect you more if you go home with him and only make outVote B
- No effectVote C
Most Helpful Girl
If you want to be seen as valuable, generally speaking you should act as if you and your pussy is valuable. If it is easy to go home with you then that's fine if ur just having fun, but don't go crying if the guy later does not respect you up to your standards. if you have any questions or concerns about how the guy will treat you, then you shouldn't sleep with him at this time. you don't want to gamble with your pussy and your emotions. always be sure.
if you owned a Ferrari would you let him drive it all day and HOPE he returned it in good condition? or would you allow him to borrow your credit card and TRUST that he didn't fuck up your credit? or would you hold off on that because you don't really know what he'd do? if you wouldn't let him use a big ticket item of yours, then u probably shouldn't have sex with him either
and DO NOT go to a guy's house alone if you are not down to fuck. like if all u wanna do is make out, you are making a dumb decision by going home with him. lets just say he turned out to be a rapist and forced u to do more. how would you look sitting in the police station saying that you went home from the bar with him but had no intentions on sexing him2