My friend is dating this girl and she embodies more than a few things that have always annoyed him. She doesn't share his passions in life. In fact, she's very uninterested in them. He ranted to me about her a few times mentioning her lack of intelligence. I've heard her say things that I was surprised he let slip by. And there are things about her personality that drive him crazy. What she has going for her is that she's fun to hang out with and he finds her attractive enough. But that's as deep as I can see it goes. I'm wondering if you've ever dated someone you felt this way with? Why?
Guys, have you dated a girl only for her looks?
What Guys Said 2
Maybe because he wants to make you jealous?
On another note, you said she's fun to be around. It's possible that she's brings out a different side of him (maybe one that is more willing to let things go and to just have fun.) It can also be that the things that drive him crazy are exactly what attracts him.
I said first that maybe he wants to make you jealous. A few questions.
1. Before her, has he dated before? If not, then he may have felt that he had too high standards and lowered them.
2. It's possible that he wanted to be with someone else, but they weren't available, so now he's with he until the other person becomes available. (Since they don't mesh well, he can break up with her easily enough.) This may not be a conscious decision.
3. How old is he? How old is she? Maybe at this stage he wants to settle down, and so does she?
4. Yes, it's possible that he is just with her because she is 'fun' and attractive. And by fun I mean in the overnight way. Maybe at his age most women want a relationship, and he doesn't? (And she doesn't either?)
And last. This has bothered you enough that you posted on this forum about this. Are you jealous? It's not like she's a bad person. She's fun, as you said, so why worry about if he's with her?0
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